Mistress Emilie

I just love this photo…

Bill Clinton listens to his wife Hillary Clinton at a fund-raiser in Washington.

This little darling came over today and got strapped, plugged, whipped and waxed.

He looked like a regular work of art once I was finished.

If you tried to call me last weekend and couldn’t get an answer, apologies! I was spending a few days in Thailand eating spicy food, escaping into various Wats, and enjoying some nightlife.

I most certainly couldn’t pass up a visit with the fabulous people of BarBar Fetish and BDSM Club in Bangkok’s Patpong district.

Mistress Mod did a gorgeous job binding me with rope, blindfolding me, and spanking me senseless. It’s good to know how it feels on the other side once in a while.

And owner Michael invited me to BarBar’s two-year anniversary party next spring and sent me home with some special gifts.

Thank you BarBar for showing me such a wonderful time! See you next spring…

I returned home from Thailand a few days ago with these lovely items designed and manufactured by Michael of BarBar Bangkok Fetish and BDSM Club.

Here’s a red leather collar with waist, ankle, and wrist cuffs, easy to use with metal clips (just like my other set).

He also gave me this leather paddle (left) and slapper (right). Thank you Michael for these special gifts! I can’t wait to use them…

I can’t resist sharing and publicly responding to this e-mail from a guy who calls himself submissive, yet has no qualms about trying to infringe on my precious, personal time:

Dear Mistress emile (sic),
…I am not the kind of guy that would make use of your services…I am a white guy living in Taiwan for a long, long time…I have lots of very beautiful girls that want to have sex with me, but lately, I have been having problems. I am such a submissive guy that I am having trouble getting it up for my normal relationships. I have talked to certain girls about the way I am, but I feel like they only do what I want to be nice to me. I need to regain my sexuality. Are you really into being a dominatrix? If you are, I would be happy to talk to you more to help understand myself and to try to get past my current problem…

Really? You’d be happy to talk with me so that I could help you understand yourself?

The very first thing you should understand, is me. At least other requests for my free time try to cloak their demands as an “offer” to be my houseboy. I’ll give my advice to you in my blog, so at least I can get something out of the time I’m spending on this.

Judging from the language in your e-mail, it seems you have a lot to learn about submission and respect for dominant females. Not only did you not capitalize my name, you spelled it wrong. And look at your pattern: “I have been having lots of problems…I am having trouble…I feel…I want…I need…Are you?… If you are, I would be happy…”

If you’re hoping to attract dominant women into your life, you are going about it the wrong way. Stop thinking about yourself and pushing the women in your life to do what you want, and start trying to figure out what dominant women want. To help make Taiwan a better place for dominant women, I’m offering you this one crumb of kindness, for which you should be most grateful. Some basic advice about finding and serving dominant women:

1. Understand it’s not all about sex. If “submissive” to you simply means that you get tied up for kinky play once-in-a-while but have no real desire to behave submissively in every day life to the women in your world, then you need to get in touch with me for an appointment and spell out your BDSM fantasy, and be willing to compensate me for my time. Otherwise, get serious about attracting dominant women into your life and be ready and willing to serve them.

2. Don’t make the “girls” in your “normal relationships” do what you want. It’s true, they’re only doing what you want just to be nice to you. That’s because they don’t actually want what you want. You should be finding out what they want, even if they don’t know it themselves yet. And don’t be sneaky and only try to make them believe that they want only what you do. If you’re truly submissive, you will find joy and happiness in giving a dominant woman exactly what she wants and making her happy, even if it’s not through some kinky sex act you’ve been craving. Trust me, she’ll get around to it if you’re patient.

3. Do dip into that pool of numerous “very beautiful girls that want to have sex” with you, and test them for dominance. I guarantee, if you do housework for a truly dominant woman (or any woman for that matter) she’s going to love that. Try doing it naked in front of her and see how she feels. Cook something for her. Serve breakfast in bed. Run some errands for her. When she calls and wants something, do it. Don’t ever, ever make a demand on a girlfriend, but be ready and willing to ask how high when she tells you to jump.

4. Be vocal to the women around you in your daily life as well. The dommes are out there looking for you too. When you open the door for them, or when you offer to do things for them around the office. When you say things like, “Whatever pleases you, I’m happy to do.” “I’m only here to make you happy.” “I love doing things for you.” Eventually, the dominant ones will naturally begin to give you orders.

5. Know that you are not a pervert, a freak, or any other pejorative used for people who like to be sexually different. Love and respect yourself for being the way you are and the women you need will find you and love you, too.

After dominating an inferior submissive for a couple hours or more I walk away feeling revitalized, at peace, and that all is right with the world. And it makes me even happier to know that a lowly sub might carry away the same feeling after a severe bout with humiliation, harassment, denial, and torture at my hands.

Sweet dreams.

He does floors, and he writes too. Enjoy his kinky tale here:

The Stables of Mistress Tori (part 1)
The Stables of Mistress Tori (part 2)
The Stables of Mistress Tori (part 3)

If you have a thing for strict, domineering nuns, most definitely check out The Magdalene Sisters, a movie about slave labor in the laundries run by the Roman Catholic Church in Ireland during the 19th and 20th centuries. Of course, the laundries were stocked with “fallen” young women no longer wanted by their shamed and angry families.

So, masochistic gentlemen watching this movie will just have to imagine themselves as young males toiling away in the laundry between canings, beatings, verbal humiliations and other cruel abuses. Geraldine McEwan is wonderful as the cheerfully sadistic Mother Superior, Sister Bridget.

She will give you delicious nightmares.